So i am not concerned about the way i consume the content, but i am sharing it with family and am concerned that the way they consume it can comromise me.

I.e. smart TV or apple TV phones home with “this person watched a file called The.Matrix.H264.PirateGroup.mkv from jellyfin.myserver.com”

Well i am concerned about it because i am distributing it. It is my server, someone else is using it on their apple tv

true, good take

Ok thanks! The price of not really knowing how things work is apparently paranoia cries in technical illiteracy

First: compromised how?

I dont want to be receiving dmca letters (or similar where i live). So I mean having access to what is being played (the names of the files would be a dead giveaway).