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Cake day: June 13th, 2023

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  • Agreed. I recognized that we needed a neutral term for non-trans people, and since we weren’t champing at the bit to present one, it was done for us. I see it so often now that it’s strange to think it ever seemed unpleasant to me.

    the queer community

    There’s a great example of a word that’s been completely reclaimed that still makes me wince a bit because of how it was used when I was growing up. I’m glad it’s been fully defanged now!


  • All of the allegory went completely over my head, which is not unusual for me. And since I’m cis I have the privilege of not having to think about how gender roles affect me in day to day life. The “red pill” thing does make it pretty funny when you consider how right-wingers, who are super transphobic, took it as their own.

    Writing this got me thinking that I hated the term “cis” when I first started hearing it years ago. It just sounded unpleasant, like “sissy” or something. But it’s grown on me through repeated usage.